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Trusting Our Maker, Finding A Way

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A journey through love bombing, faith, betrayal, emotional whiplash, and healing.

When Your Body Knows Before Your Mind Can Explain

There are moments when nothing looks wrong.

The words are fine.
The logic checks out.
The situation, on paper, seems reasonable.

And yet your body tightens.

Your chest feels heavy.
Your stomach sinks.
You feel tired in a way sleep doesn’t fix.

For a long time, many of us were taught to override that information.
To spiritualize it.
To rationalize it.
To tell ourselves we were “overreacting,” “too sensitive,” or “not trusting enough.”

But the body is not the enemy of faith.
It is often the first witness.

The body keeps record of what the mind hasn’t caught up to yet — patterns, inconsistencies, emotional mismatches. It reacts not to isolated moments, but to accumulation.

This doesn’t mean every discomfort is danger.
But it does mean discomfort deserves curiosity, not dismissal.

Sometimes wisdom doesn’t arrive as a clear sentence.
Sometimes it arrives as unease.

And learning to listen — gently, without panic or self-judgment — is not weakness.
It’s discernment growing muscles.

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The Body Keeps the Score
https://www.besselvanderkolk.com/resources/the-body-keeps-the-score/

Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
https://emotionallyhealthy.org/

The Gottman Institute
https://www.gottman.com/blog/listening-to-your-body/